The original amp schematic shows C12 coupling cap going to cathodyne PI grid. The shunt capacitor C11 is there to load down V3A output at high frequencies to attenuate the open-loop gain sufficiently at high frequency for the negative feedback loop not to become unstable. You still have feedback connected, so C11 should be positioned back to where it was (directly to C12), unless your change to the feedback resistor has properly achieved stability with your new position of C11.
You can add a volume pot between any valve stage by having an input coupling capacitor, and an output coupling capacitor. That simple concept doesn't seem to be discussed in any reference I can quickly find - and not easy to find a schematic - see Fig 9.2 in
https://www.scribd.com/document/365291177/GEC-audio-frequency-amp-design-pdf
Most designers don't want the hassle of using 2 coupling caps, so they typically work out a way to delete one. But in your case, if you want to add a simple volume control then that is one way to do it.
A grid stopper is the effective AC resistance between the previous stages anode and the V3A grid, and is typically used to soften the grid conduction characteristic if the PI is over-driven. It can also act as a treble filter (RC where C is the valve capacitance), that can reduce the level of distortion harmonics generated as grid conduction becomes noticeable. Most people find that at least 220k to 470k is needed as a grid stopper, to notice some taming of grid conduction distortion in a cathodyne. Some amps don't have a signal level high enough at that location to worry about taming PI distortion (ie. the output stage may start clipping before the PI starts to enter any noticeable grid conduction on peaks) - and alternatively, some amps aim to accentuate that form of distortion so do not include any stoppering.
If you then had your original circuit (and forget about C11 for the moment), then inserting a grid stopper to V3B pin 9 upsets the grid leak resistance. Eg. a 470k grid stopper in series with a 470k R18 gives an effective grid leak of 1Meg. A designer has a few options - just add the additional 470k grid stopper - change R18 to 220k and add a 220k grid stopper (this gives the same grid leak resistance).
In your latest circuit post #53, the effective value of grid leak and of grid stopper change significantly with the vol pot wiper position.