Hi and kudos to you for being willing to venture into checking out some different music. I would say, if there was anything you liked about "Kind of Blue", give it some more time. Sometimes it takes listening to something for a while before you begin to more fully get with what what's going on. There is actually plenty of "kick" in that famous recording just as it is, and after a while you might dig that. The process is kind of like getting off salt. At first you miss the taste that salt gives food, but after a while, you begin to enjoy the natural taste of food without the salt. Also, I'm not sure what "clarinet spasms" you are referring to, but if you are referring to any of the extended improvisations on KOB, I think what you'll realize eventually, is that you're being led in depth, into some amazing music. Give things time and the "ether" will be where you will eventually swim!
At the same time, there is nothing wrong with going with some more of the fusion-oriented things, or jazz that has a "funk or soul" influence. It may truly be what you like better. You can also like all of it. But the point I'm making, is that a lot of people who haven't listened to much jazz, might need some time to acclimate. Stay with it!
Also, as mentioned above, the Jazz Playlist, is a great place to visit to find things to listen to.