Damn, Larry, I've been out of touch with the Fisher forum (2 weeks of Jury duty) and it seems all hell broke loose on you. Last I knew I was quoting your riddles on the reason why we need to horde stereo equipment (with my wife Deedi affirming your rendition of Dee's point of viewing) and now this.
As young as we feel, and as young as we act, getting older gets in the way. All we can hope is that the obstacles are temporary. Dee's stubborness is probaably a good sign, as she fights whatever issue is stopping her kidneys. Let her know she is in our hearts and our prayers.