Changing the grid resistors on the tube won't really change the amount of grid voltage the tube gets. There is virtually zero current draw, so almost no voltage drops across that resistor. It will also affect the filter formed by the coupling capacitor and the grid resistor. Its basically a high pass filter, making it different per-side might cause some odd performance.
If you put a pot at the output of the bias supply, with the wiper going to the bias level pot and the two outer legs of the extra pot going to the two grid resistors that will give you a balance. Won't be fail safe, so if the pot fails the tubes probably will too, but its a quick and easy way of adding that function with a minimum of parts.
Maybe play musical tubes to see if you can get 2 that behave reasonably together?
If you put a pot at the output of the bias supply, with the wiper going to the bias level pot and the two outer legs of the extra pot going to the two grid resistors that will give you a balance. Won't be fail safe, so if the pot fails the tubes probably will too, but its a quick and easy way of adding that function with a minimum of parts.
Maybe play musical tubes to see if you can get 2 that behave reasonably together?