Did You have a large system when You and Your Wife first got together..........seems like You're the Only One Changing/Giving Up Things throughout Your Life Why??? See what Her Interest are and Get Her Involved with something She Likes or Something Both of You can do Together......Marriage is a Give & Take Partnership but it Seems You're the Only One Giving and Your Wife is Taking. If Your Marriage is Important to You and Your Wife.........this can be Worked out so Both of You are Happy. Good Luck Brother with whatever You end up doing.......Life is Way too Short Enjoy Every Day. Take Care, Mike.