I have to credit my wife for her continued love of music. She does hate the tech though. I am lucky enough to have an office/mancave in the house now that the kids are gone, and I have free reign decorating there.
I have set up Sonos in most of the rest of the house, for her listening. Pretty easy for her to work, and plays from all sorts of streaming sources.
Now, I have sat her in the listening chair, and spun some vinyl with her music on it, and she does know the difference in the systems. She opts for more music, more simply accessed. She leaves the vinyl rituals to me. Along with big visible equipment, and room treatments.
Back in the house with the 3 kids, 2 dogs, 2 cats (one lived in my study) and a bird, I listened to headphones mainly.