There is only one place to get replacement diaphragms, all of the cheap ones are junk. Great Plains Audio is owned by a fellow (Bill) that used to work for Altec and he purchased all the tooling when they went under. So you get authentic Altec parts, not some Chinese knockoffs.
As far as size, BIG! and they are about 30 pounds each.
Where do you live? I'm from Burlington, nice to see a fellow Altec fan close by.
BillWojo