Buried a friend today

anytune

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A very sad day here in So Fla. Had to put my beautiful kitty, Bebe, to sleep. Stomach cancer, the vet said. I suspected something bad. She'd been throwing up almost daily for about a month and had lost a lot of weight. An ultrasound revealed a mass in the esophagus and small tumors in the stomach lining. The mass was blocking most solid food from passing. Surgery really wasn't an option and would only prolong the inevitable; there just wasn't much anyone could do.
The vet asked if I wanted to spend one more day with her, and I thought about it, but I just didn't want to see her struggle any more. Enough.
I had about ten minutes of quiet time with her. Held her in my arms, stroked her softly, told her how much I loved her and would miss her, and that she was the best friend anyone could ever have. It was truly a privilege looking after Bebe for 11 years. Hard to believe it was that long ago that she just showed up on my doorstep asking for a place to stay.
Instead of cremating, I decided to bring the body home so her playmate, Cinder, would have a chance to say goodbye. They always got along well, and I could tell he knew something was wrong. Last night, for instance, he gave up his place on the bed, and lately I noticed him letting her eat first, which is pretty unusual for an alpha male. It's neat how animals look after each other.
Anyway, thanks for letting me share. For those of us who don't have children, pets are our families. Bebe was my special angel.
 
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She is a beautiful kittie...i have a soft spot for black cats...I had to do the same 2 days after we arrived at our new house...boy was it painful...I will keep you 3 in my thoughts...Hang in there, dont let the sadness overburden you, as she would like it probably if you kept good memories, but be happy that you had her.
 
Sorry about the loss of your cat Bebe. She looks just like our cat Shadow who passed away a couple of months ago. Had those same beautiful eyes too.
 
One of the most traumatic experiences I've ever witnessed was when my Sister-in-law had to make that decision for her cat. It's a very, very difficult thing to do but we do it out of love. Bebe was fortunate to have found someone like you.

Carter
 
So sorry for your loss. You know you did the right thng. A beautiful cat, thanks for sharing her photo.
 
Sorry for the loss of a good friend. I know how it is. I just lost a young guy who was a stray and we got him to trust us. He moved in and made no attempt to get out.After extensive vet work and tests, he was put to sleep about 2 months ago due to F.I.P. disease, fatal. It sucks and there's very little to make it feel better:tears: except to know you did the best you could for your friend.
 
Sittin' here sobbin'...This sort of thing ALWAYS tears me up....Really tough to say good-bye to a critter friend like that...
 
So sorry to hear of your loss. You did the right thing to save her from any more suffering. Peace be with you.
 
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