OK. OP here. Thanks everyone so far. This is all really helpful information. Seems people have plenty good to say about both the Ford Ranger and the Toyota Tacoma. (Plus a few votes for a Dodge)
The more I read and think, the more i come back to the thought of a two-wheel drive Ford.
I don't see anything in this discussion (or elsewhere) that really explains why Toyotas are $5-$9k more than Fords. I'll chalk it up to marketing and the continuing stereotype that Japanese vehicles are substantially better than domestic. (Which I believe was true in the 70's and 80's but as finnbow (I think) pointed out many posts ago, there really aren't any egregiously low-quality vehicles made any more (except maybe some European models).)
FWIW, I've owned vehicles from Ford, GM, Toyota, Honda, and Volvo and never had an issue getting over the 200k mile point reliably with any of them. (The highest miles I got was out of a '91 Buick Park Ave ---245k mi when I sold it. I know it was driven another 2 years after, maybe more.) I hear that Toyota trucks usually die of frame rot 'round these parts. I don't think anyone gets more than 12 years out of them. I suspect Fords to be similar.
So, why would I get a 2WD over a 4WD?
1. Cheapness-or-to put it another way; get a better (newer) 2WDtruck for the same or less money than a 4x4.
2. Road feel. this would be my "car" after all. I appreciate a quiet, smooth ride.
3. As nice as it would be, I really don't need 4WD to get around in the winter. I've driven 20k to 30k miles a year for the last 20+ years and never so much as got stuck in anything I was driving. And I'm a guy who loves to go out and drive around in snowstorms.
Anyway, I might sound settled, but I'm not. The wheels are still turning (pardon the pun) and I'll enjoy continuing with this thread.
Thanks again everyone.
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