So several days go by with no answer, and suddenly another one-liner: "refund already sent..return needle; check your paypal account".
Have they even read my messages at all I wonder? F-- them

. I'm forgetting about this, stylus stays here until further notice.
"Like I said, I'm not paying for return shipping on a defective item. You've refunded me exactly the amount I paid. If you want me to return the stylus, which I do not mind, then either agree to selling me another one with NO shipping charges (to make up for return shipping) OR refund me the return postage as well. Otherwise the stylus stays here, although I've no use for it (it is UNUSABLE and will RUIN RECORDS). Your return policy very clearly says
"Find answers
N95ED REPLACEMENT STYLUS 767-DE
Item number:
Price:$9.98
Returns (2)
Returns: We found 2 answer(s)
What is the return policy?
Accepts returns. Items must be returned within: 14 days. Refunds will be given as money back. The seller pays for return shipping."
That's it as far as I'm concerned. Rgds."