You're burying your head on the sand to write the Red Bull drama off as rumor mill or press flaming. It happened, I watched and listened to it. It is not business as usual when a driver tells his team over an open radio link that he will not follow their direction. When that driver is also the world champion twice over (though the first one was and is still highly debatable), and the guy he's refusing to help on the track is not only his teammate but has also bent over backwards to help him win those titles, it is shameful.
Really big of Max to offer to help now. Then again, Helmut told him he had to and we know what happens to drivers that get on the wrong side of Helmut.
BTW, I don't follow social media (unless you want to lump AK into that bucket)... but literally every news organization in the world that follows F1 has reported on this.
The one article that stood out as slightly different was Karun Chandhok's suggestion that this may have been more of Max drawing a line in the sand over who the #1 driver on the team is and what his limits are, vs. the intentional crash during Monaco quali by Checo. It ties in with what Jos Verstappen has stated about "their" view of how the team managed it back earlier in the season when Max was not getting the race results and Perez suddenly went to the front and started to be more successful. I don't think anyone ever thought he was the better driver of the two but there was some discussion outside the team whether they would start backing his push towards a title vs. focusing on Max.
Whatever the reasons for it were, it was still a shitty move.
I did also enjoy the fans immediately bringing up that corner incident between Max and Ocon from 4 seasons back where Max closed the door on Ocon at an apex and got shunted... Max's comments at the time were "Of course afterwards you can easily say 'oh Max, you should have given room' and blah, blah, blah but it's not like that." Clearly he has no problem with the driver in front taking the apex and leaving the overtaker no room, when it suits him. But, his stance on all of those collisions has always been 100% self-centered, supported by his enablers Horner & Marko.
I am not surprised by any it though, after following the sport for the whole time Max has been participating. Here's an article that really shows just what this guy is capable of, and from the details in the article it appears to be a family trait:
https://www.racefans.net/2018/11/12/why-verstappen-should-have-been-banned-shoving-ocon/
John