wanna read a rant about the Goodwill Beasties?

thedelihaus

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Wanna see my nasty side? Wanna hear what I'm like in a bad mood? All fired up?

Do you like rants? Howzabout raves? Then read on, me droogies, read on...

I'll feel 100% better after unloading this heaping pile...

Went to the Goodwill in Cambridge/Somerville today, at Davis Square. It was packed, and someone, well, someone's to blame. Someone let the dogs out...

How bad was the crowd?

Someone trying to pry off the cloth grill of a KLH by tearing off the emblem and using that to wedge off the grill. suprise- it was held on by velcro, you sub-genius! They looked at the ancient drivers, and getting extremely dissapointed for not seeing brightly colored foam surrounds, a chrome dust cap, and a plastic trim ring painted to look like aluminum around the driver, went off, dijected, to pry apart the non-removeable grill of a vinyl covered, single cone driver Pioneer center channel that once came with an all-in-one setup.

Watched a grown man snap out the plastic window to a 100+ pioneer cd changer while I was there, because he was too impatient to figure out how to open it. Took him all of 20 seconds. Later he forcibly jammed a VHS tape (maybe it was a Beta?) improperly into a vcr and broke off the hinged VCR door, and then continued his destructive spree- snapped a cassette door off a cheapo Awia unit.

Another fella was playing a turntable- no record mind you, stylus directly on the rubber mat, tone arm bouncing around. Gawd!

Someone had already pulled the knobs and sliders off an entry-level Quad Pioneer before I got there. And someone earlier had pushed in the domes on a pair of Teac speakers. This is the same store where I witnessed some guys trying to destroy a big-arsed MCS receiver 4 or 5 months back by touching the speaker wires together, while laughing, and where the group of 20-something "gangstas" were intimidating folk that day in-store while they busted up things (check previous post about it for the full story).

I went to find salvation in the records. The record selection was fairly poor, actually one of the worst I've ever seen in Mass (besides Hanover) at a Goodwill/salvation Army. I unearthed a few good Red Seal and Living Stereo pieces that were in there. Unfortunately, all I looked at were scuffed or scratched- all enough to pass on except one. The only salvageable record was a copy of Nutcracker Suite, and I've got tons already, so I ended up passing.

As I sat there in my chair witnessing this bizarre circus, this zoo, things got a bit personal. A 6 year old kid repeatedly called me the "ugly wheelchair man" over and over and over again, while his older brother, maybe 10, joined in for a brief moment, and taunted me in a sinister tone about being unable to walk. His parents were there, and let them behave this way. When I made eye contact with them, they looked at me like I was the a-hole or something.

Other adults behaved nearly as bad as the kids- let me tell you, it really drives me nuts when grown men stare at me, and I mean really, really stare- I'm in a wheelchair, that's all, for Pete's sake. No curled horns growing out of my head, no helper monkey on my lap, I'm not dressed in a tutu. Fortunately, my arms work, I don't belch flames, or sport a tri-colored mohawk, and my wheelchair is not a "cool, powerful" chair, with spinners and neon ground effects! Nothing fun to see!!! Really!!!

One whacko, who smelled like his pants had a load of turd in them swimming in a pungent sea of urine, was freaking out, like I may get the deals for some reason, and kept hovering over and around me. Another lady paranoid and afraid I was trying to cut the line, and get rung up first, special treatment for the gimp.

The obligatory annoying, grating, "priviledged" ladies with big mouths were there, as they always are, but just a few this afternoon. How'd I know? Well, they were complaining out loud, of course. These ladies feel entitled and so (self?) important, feel that they should be waited on hand and foot, as if they were the only customer in the store, and the store was fricken' Nordstrom's! They reek of sour soul, the disdain bubbling and gurgling from their rotted hearts. A cruel group of biddies who deem themself privileged, entitled and worthy of a kept existance, giving them the right to treat the help, especially if they are a minority, like 3 year olds with behavioral issues, or worse, like feral, howling, dinner-theiving cats worthy of a scalding. Spoiled meat, my friends.

Plenty of dunderheaded sheep-people in herds there today as well, who ignore your presence, and refuse to move even if they step into your forward-moving path. They just stand there, faces turned ever so slightly, as if they just had their feet nailed to the floorboards in front of you. They refuse to acknowledge you, refuse to get out of your way. They're shopping, they're standing there, they don't hear, see, recognize you're presence there. And they just don't care- they're more interested in that holiday-themed XXL jem sweater in their clutches and those coffee-colored stirrup pants with just a touch od "pilling", or maybe that Anna-Lee doll with the felt arms and legs with wire infrastructure, and the silkscreened spooky painted cloth face, on sale for $3.99. No way! But yes! See? It's written on that robin-egg blue tag in red grease pencil...

The best comment of the day? A little girl asking her mom if she could pick out a CD to buy. Her mom answered "I don't know anything about them CD things- they're too confusing. You'll have to wait and ask your dad- your dad knows all that high tech stuff."

What?!? This lady is allowed to drive a car? This lady is allowed to buy alchohol? This lady is allowed to raise children? To continue breeding? Oh bother!!!

I was pretty heated by the time I left.

Thanks for hearing me out, thanks for the rant!

I feel better already!:thmbsp:
 
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Wow, now that sounds like a crappy time!

Since they want to stare, you might wanna give them something to stare at!

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Mount some speakers on the top and put on some good music for the ganstas.


Glad that crap is over for you, at least for a while, I swear, people are so stupid. like you said, people who think CDs are new technology. You dont know how many times I hear that at my dad's flea market. At least once a visit.

Remember, if people are saying stupid things, they are probably stupid and do not deserve your attention.

I dont have a rant to contribute at the moment, but I will think of one.
 
Nice rant. Sometimes you gotta let it out.
I find most people to be morons or idiots. My problem is I would speak up and say hey, dummy, your destroying that.
I was in a wheel chair for about three months. I was at the mall and a little girl was looking at me. As I smiled at her, the mother turned to her and said in a rude tone "don't look at him". Poor little girl didn't mean anything by looking. I wispered to her why I was in the chair. Like you said, I was in a wheel chair not some kind of monster. Well thats people for ya.
I complained to a buddy of mine that has been in a chair his entire life and he says things like that don't bother him any more.
Go home, put on some tunes and relax.

Rob
 
In regards to the gawkers- people staring becomes part of the norm, and you get used to it. No big deal. :dunno: It's just at times it gets extra concentrated, and you go nuts. Usually it's at malls. American society flushes its toilets and the isles of the malls run thick with the detritus of society. Not all the folk there- plenty of excellent people too. But the mud sharks are there, floating along in numbers. I notice it can be awkward at restaraunts at times too- moreso if your injury is of higher level. Awkward!

I'd be lying if I denied that it bothers me at times, but today it was nothing more than a bit extra icing on the turd cupcake. I'm not sweating it. Just was an extra poke in the ribs, that's all. :rolleyes:

What really peeved me off, what got me all wound up the most was watching people smash things, a "Me hulk, me smash" behavior. Follow that with folk who's behavior skills are poor at best, who's bowels are emptying into their cranium i think, and it's gonna be a sour time. :mad:

First thing I do when they finally figure how to get me walking again, is to go kick a line of these folk hard and square in the ass!!! :yippy:

In regards to the kids, well, sometimes you want to tell them to quit it, to shut up, to stop poining, stop staring, but hey, they're just kids. Little children, curious, harmless, innocent (usually). You must always remember that. the parents truly are funny about it though- get crippled, then you turn into a kidnapper, a pervert, a cannibal, a boogieman.

I just think they get mad because I get the best holiday parking!:banana:
 
thedelihaus said:
Wanna see my nasty side? Wanna hear what I'm like in a bad mood? All fired up?

Do you like rants? Howzabout raves? Then read on, me droogies, read on...
I love rants. Tons. We need more of these, because everyone reading this thread is nodding his or her head (assuming he's capable, of course) and chuckling.

Other adults behaved nearly as bad as the kids- let me tell you, it really drives me nuts when grown men stare at me, and I mean really, really stare- I'm in a wheelchair, that's all, for Pete's sake. No curled horns growing out of my head, no helper monkey on my lap, I'm not dressed in a tutu. Fortunately, my arms work, I don't belch flames, or sport a tri-colored mohawk, and my wheelchair is not a "cool, powerful" chair, with spinners and neon ground effects! Nothing fun to see!!! Really!!!
Maybe here's your real problem. You need to get each of those things. Curly horns you can snap on when necessary - tell 'em you need them for when the crazy non-rolling folk get insolent. Wear a tutu when it suits the mood - tell 'em you're on the way home from your ballet lesson!
And while you can't really learn to belch flames and I disapprove of spinners et al, you HAVE to get a monkey. I don't see any way around this. They're a great excuse - like kids, but better. So many things he could help you with: send him off to jump on the wicked witch of the east and tangle her hair and pull on her skirt. Untie kids shoes. Run ahead and sit on any silver gear you see and scream at anyone that approaches.
And the coup de grace, you could train him to throw feces at people on command, it's their natural tendency ya know. 'Sorry, no way to help it. The last owner was completely insane and used to beat the poor beast.'
The world will ever after be a better place.

Plenty of dunderheaded sheep-people in herds there today as well, who ignore your presence, and refuse to move even if they step into your forward-moving path. They just stand there, faces turned ever so slightly, as if they just had their feet nailed to the floorboards in front of you. They refuse to acknowledge you, refuse to get out of your way.

Oh, they learn pretty quickly when your brakes "fail." I've told you before about a friend of mine at work who's a quad. (He's also our director of ADA compliance - when folks complain about accessibility of some of our locations, he invites them in to talk and tell him how hard it is to be them. The looks on their faces are priceless.) He and I stopped at a shop on the way to watch a Murderball tournament, and at the point I started to get pissed at people he says "I got this handled." Two or three run over feet and a couple badly bruised ankles later, accompanied by loud "Ooops, sorry, new chair. I can't stop so quickly in this one yet" and he got a plenty wide berth.

I've got lots and lots and lots of really sadistic ideas on this from him and from going places with my little brother who spent a month in a coma.
The way I see it - it's lemonade time!
 
I know the feeling.Im overweight(Im working on it,but its a slow process)and have foot problems,and you wouldnt believe some of the comments I get from the local Mensa crowd.People have absolutely no problem mocking you outloud in public.I had one old lady get upset because I couldnt see her coming(Im blind in my left eye),and said,very loudly"he must be in a hurry to get to the food court".She was right behind me with a friend,and I just put my hand behind my back,and raised my middle finger.She shut up pretty quick after that.Ive decided that the rest of society is one large extended high school,with various cliques and levels of cool people and nerds or those deemed unattractive.
And try going to a movie aimed at those under 30.Get these clowns in tribes of four or more,and Im in for a really good time.
Ive got an idea,Paul:Ill sit on the idiots,and you run them over with your chair.
Jimmy
 
2DualsNotEnough said:
I know the feeling.Im overweight(Im working on it,but its a slow process)and have foot problems,and you wouldnt believe some of the comments I get from the local Mensa crowd.People have absolutely no problem mocking you outloud in public.I had one old lady get upset because I couldnt see her coming(Im blind in my left eye),and said,very loudly"he must be in a hurry to get to the food court".She was right behind me with a friend,and I just put my hand behind my back,and raised my middle finger.She shut up pretty quick after that.Ive decided that the rest of society is one large extended high school,with various cliques and levels of cool people and nerds or those deemed unattractive.
And try going to a movie aimed at those under 30.Get these clowns in tribes of four or more,and Im in for a really good time.
Ive got an idea,Paul:Ill sit on the idiots,and you run them over with your chair.
Jimmy
I know the feeling thoroughly. I am only 5'8" and 320lbs:tears:
I make do though. But yes, it is the ignorant ones that always comment. Then when they need tech help they start telling you how smart you are. D!ckheads..:rant:
Of course, they shut up VERY quickly when you tell them you are going to $h!t in their salad..:D
 
I know what ya mean Alex. I'm 5'5" and back in February I was 220lbs. I couldn't get a date for the life of me unless they needed their computer fixed or something. I'm down to 185 now and I'm still working on it. Anyway, I get people singing, "We represent the lollipop guild..." at me sometimes. Then they hear my Barry White voice telling them to shut it or get my foot up their ass.

This one really hit home for me, especially that last bit:

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I just think they get mad because I get the best holiday parking!:banana:[/QUOTE]

It is the little things, Eh delihaus? It has always been a pet peeve of mine to see perfectly healthy people park in the handicapped parking spaces. I am disabled myself and many times have had parking spaces taken right from under me as I am attempting to pull in. It is usually the type that jump right out of their car and Run or trot into the store as I am cussing them out. I would also like to let you know I enjoy your posts. Have you had any writting classes? You have a clear and descriptive style to your writtings. You strike me as a very wise man.
 
Drop the weight, boys! all that extra will kill you!

I'm a paltry 130 lbs at most, 5'6". Got the jokes about the height at times, and never weighed more than 132, but had plenty of lovely girlfriends, and that shut them up.

But that weight can, and will kill you. Saw what it did to my father. And my very good friend, about 5'10", used to weigh in at around 415 to 430.

Had his stomache tied, and lost over 240 pounds. Used to have skin rash issues and odd facial acne. That cleared up as the weight dropped. Started getting promoted at work, started making more money, started getting real popular, started getting all the ladies, and finally hooked a wild Miami latin lover who was Wolfgang Puck in the kitchen and Linda Lovelace in the bedroom. went to Vegas, married her, and after 6 months, has already divorced her.

A wild ride awaits you!

Stay healthy, my friends! It's worth it. I wish you luck and strength.
 
thedelihaus said:
Drop the weight, boys! all that extra will kill you!

I'm a paltry 130 lbs at most, 5'6". Got the jokes about the height at times, and never weighed more than 132, but had plenty of lovely girlfriends, and that shut them up.

But that weight can, and will kill you. Saw what it did to my father. And my very good friend, about 5'10", used to weigh in at around 415 to 430.

Had his stomache tied, and lost over 240 pounds. Used to have skin rash issues and odd facial acne. That cleared up as the weight dropped. Started getting promoted at work, started making more money, started getting real popular, started getting all the ladies, and finally hooked a wild Miami latin lover who was Wolfgang Puck in the kitchen and Linda Lovelace in the bedroom. went to Vegas, married her, and after 6 months, has already divorced her.

A wild ride awaits you!

Stay healthy, my friends! It's worth it. I wish you luck and strength.

I hear ya!
I want to, but words are easier than action for me.

I am not restrictively obese yet, but I did lose some weight, as I was 355lbs. Now at 320lbs I feel a bit better each morning, but i'd like to get down to 230lbs(the weight my doctor said would be optimum for my frame)
My family has a history of being very staulky.:smoke:

I was about 340lbs in this image.
Terrible image though, I look like I am staring at some woman's woofers.:D
 

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I just think they get mad because I get the best holiday parking!:banana:

It is the little things, Eh delihaus? It has always been a pet peeve of mine to see perfectly healthy people park in the handicapped parking spaces. I am disabled myself and many times have had parking spaces taken right from under me as I am attempting to pull in. It is usually the type that jump right out of their car and Run or trot into the store as I am cussing them out. I would also like to let you know I enjoy your posts. Have you had any writting classes? You have a clear and descriptive style to your writtings. You strike me as a very wise man.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the compliments, jon.

I studied art, drafting and architecture in high school, and went on to do art in college, later picking up media studies- wanted to be a DJ until I realized I may get stuck spinning top 40. Ugh. directed a few films in media school, and got a scholarship to a big college. studied cinematography and directing. Very little writing, except for lousy screenplays. Wrote a few pieces here and there for my own enjoyment, or as gifts. Hated dealing with the personalities, so went back to art, then into house restoration and slapshod carpentry, then into light duty auto mechanics. Enjoyed learning new things.

I need to put my nose to the grindstone however, and sharpen my skills on writing. I'd like to write a few pieces for Affordable audio, and a friend of mine bugs me to write for his film company. May turn out to be my new career. Can't climb ladders or crawl under BMWs any more.

Thanks for the kind words. Much appreciated.

See you at the front of the parking lots!
 
It seems you did a lot of stuff. I guess I was picking up on your artistic interest. Writting would be a direction you could go. You use your words well.
 
I have a rant to contibute here....
I responded to an ad on the local Craigslist for a Sansui G-7500 for $XXX. The price was maybe a bit high, especially considering a one hour drive each way to get the unit, so when I called the guy, I asked if he was firm on that price. He said that "cash talks" and that he had quite a bit of other gear taking up room in his garage, and to come on down and make a deal. So I load the kids up and hit the highway.
I pull up to a fairly nice home in a decent looking neighborhood, and I am greeted at the door by the guys very pleasant wife. This dishevelled fellow in his 40s comes down from upstairs and leads me out to his garage, where he has a TON of very desirable equipment sitting out in the cold and humidity of the PNW. I see the Sansui I came for sitting on the garage floor with at least seven other receivers on top of it! About 150lbs of siht on top a fairly decent condition 'Sui. Further more, he has various half disassembled ADS, Boston, Speaker Labs, the biggest Advents I have ever seen (nearly chest high). Plus a half dozen others that I couldn't identify. All quite desirable, most partially apart.
Anywho, I dig the 'Sui out from under all of the others, we get it hooked up, and it worked, but it was dirty and definitely needed serviced. So I make him a very solid offer on it and a Carver 2000 receiver which still had the $29.99 goodwill price tag on it. He responded as if I had asked for a go with his wife.
Then he offers me the 'Sui plus two other crummy units for more than he wanted for them separately, in total. I turn that down, and just make a very reasonable offer on the 'Sui, which he refused. (About 15% less than his high aksing price, I did drive an hour after all, I didn't want to leave with nothing).
He then proceeded to tell me how much they go for on ebay and the local boutiques..blah.....blah...blah. Not only was he firm on the price, he was trying to bounce me. GODDAMNIT!!!! I just headed for the car. some people just shouldn't be allowed access to this kind of gear, all of that stuff is just going to sit out in the moisture and rot, all because this guy couldn't accept a profit margin of %500. And that without even removing the top cover or breaking out a rag and some windex.:screwy:
 
tarior said:
About 150lbs of siht on top a fairly decent condition 'Sui. Further more, he has various half disassembled ADS, Boston, Speaker Labs, the biggest Advents I have ever seen (nearly chest high). Plus a half dozen others that I couldn't identify. All quite desirable, most partially apart.
Anywho, I dig the 'Sui out from under all of the others, we get it hooked up, and it worked, but it was dirty and definitely needed serviced. So I make him a very solid offer on it and a Carver 2000 receiver which still had the $29.99 goodwill price tag on it. ............... all of that stuff is just going to sit out in the moisture and rot, all because this guy couldn't accept a profit margin of %500. And that without even removing the top cover or breaking out a rag and some windex.:screwy:

If you think it's worth the effort, try to imagine what the view looks like from his side of the eyeballs. All this semi-dismantled gear and general crud are, to him, `almost finished projects that will be worth a mint when done'. Something's changed; maybe he's lost interest or maybe come under enough pressure to have to move it all, but he still values the time he spent recklessly pulling things apart at the same hourly rate someone would charge him to repair his computer. The last thing he wants is a potential buyer who knows what they're looking at, and what the `treasure trove' is actually worth in its present state...................... Jim.
 
Don't worry about it delihaus... Those people are dead inside, but we, my freind are not:yippy: . Don't take it to personal either, believe me when I tell you alot of the same s**t your talking about happens to me too. People can just be f***ing rude. You hit it right on the head with the "sour souls" remark. You may have a physical handicap, but those people have a handicap that they will never realize. I feel very sorry for them. I respect you. As for all the people who are having weight problems, just remember. It is not hopeless. I am 5' 6" and a year and a half ago I weighed over 300Lbs.. Since then I have become a vegetarian and started working out three or four times a week for about a half hour. I now weigh in at 185. No weird diets, no pills or surgery, just dedication. It's not easy, but it's DEFINETLY woth it.
-Greg-
 
Combwork said:


If you think it's worth the effort, try to imagine what the view looks like from his side of the eyeballs. All this semi-dismantled gear and general crud are, to him, `almost finished projects that will be worth a mint when done'. Something's changed; maybe he's lost interest or maybe come under enough pressure to have to move it all, but he still values the time he spent recklessly pulling things apart at the same hourly rate someone would charge him to repair his computer. The last thing he wants is a potential buyer who knows what they're looking at, and what the `treasure trove' is actually worth in its present state...................... Jim.
Yeah, I'm annoyed mostly because he said one thing on the phone, but did another in person. It reminded me of the old man (theres one near almost every city) that has a hundred classic cars sitting out in the rain rusting away, because they're just too valuable to sell off.
 
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