It's probably not what you want to hear, but the short answer is, you can't, at least not without making measurements during operation in your amp.
True matching has to be done in your amp, or in a specialized matching device (NOT a tube tester) that can duplicate the conditions in your amp. Even the expensive devices like the MaxiMatcher only offer a few set options for element voltages. There's another recent thread in here about 6L6 conversions where this topic just got some air time, and that might be of help to you.
p.s. eBay-style matching, usually meaning saying the percentage meter on some Hickok-derived military tester that uses pulsating d.c. on the grid and barely over 100 volts on the plate means nothing. (I see your seller didn't use the term "matched," to his credit).