It's not just our laziness that changed, it's really more the media we (or at least I) use that makes remote volume more of a "must have" today. When we used to play a CD or an album, you could set the volume level once and it would be appropriate for all the songs on that CD/album. Today, when streaming from Spotify, for example, each individual song can have very different volume level. It's not bad if you are streaming a single album from beginning to end, but it is bad when streamed songs are across many different albums, the volume in each song can vary a huge amount. My wife will often ask why I turned up the volume so loud, and of course I haven't touched the volume control, just volume differences between different Spotify tracks.