fmueller
Super Member
A few days ago my neighbor's old apple tree broke apart, presumably due to the increasing weight of all the sour, rotten, little apples it is producing. I have never seen anybody eat a single apple from that tree, so it's no great loss. Unfortunately it fell across the fence, and into a part of my yard that is densely planted with decorative shrubs - azaleas, spirea, Japanese maple, and so on.
Having a company or the neighbors clean up the mess would have meant loosing all my bushes. So I went ahead and did the job myself, borrowing a chain saw from another neighbor. While I was doing that, my wife went up to the neighbors who owned the apple tree, and asked them if it would be ok to put the apple branches in front of their property for the city to pick up. Only the teenage son was home, and he said yes. That family consists of two women and two teenage boys. I know they don't own a chain saw, and last time they had to deal with an apple tree a storm had broken up, it was a huge ado before they brought in friends who had a chain saw, but didn't know how to use it.
So this time, while I was at it anyhow, I cleaned up the mess on their side also, to the point where they just had to move a few branches to the roadside, and take a few pieces of firewood into their backyard. I figured the boys could do that, and I know they like having bonfires there.
Two days later the city picked up the branches I had put by the road. It's a free service and they guys even swept up all the apples and leaves and left the site as clean as could be. So far things couldn't have turned out better.
Only the neighbors never did anything about the branches or firewood on their site of the fence, and they have not said a word to me about the whole affair. It was their tree falling in my yard, and clearly their responsibility to clean up. I did all the work for them, and not a word of thanks. Now I am worried that they are pissed off for some reason about what I did, although I can't possibly figure out what could upset them. I also don't want to talk to them and look like I am fishing for praise. What would you do?
The area the apple tree fell on in Spring a few years ago.
Apple tree lying on top of my shrubs.
Most of my bushes bounced back after the cleanup. Yes, the red Japanes maple was completely buried!
Photo from the neighbor's side with the tree down.
Chopped up wood left for the neighbors.
My wife helping me with the cleanup on our side.
Having a company or the neighbors clean up the mess would have meant loosing all my bushes. So I went ahead and did the job myself, borrowing a chain saw from another neighbor. While I was doing that, my wife went up to the neighbors who owned the apple tree, and asked them if it would be ok to put the apple branches in front of their property for the city to pick up. Only the teenage son was home, and he said yes. That family consists of two women and two teenage boys. I know they don't own a chain saw, and last time they had to deal with an apple tree a storm had broken up, it was a huge ado before they brought in friends who had a chain saw, but didn't know how to use it.
So this time, while I was at it anyhow, I cleaned up the mess on their side also, to the point where they just had to move a few branches to the roadside, and take a few pieces of firewood into their backyard. I figured the boys could do that, and I know they like having bonfires there.
Two days later the city picked up the branches I had put by the road. It's a free service and they guys even swept up all the apples and leaves and left the site as clean as could be. So far things couldn't have turned out better.
Only the neighbors never did anything about the branches or firewood on their site of the fence, and they have not said a word to me about the whole affair. It was their tree falling in my yard, and clearly their responsibility to clean up. I did all the work for them, and not a word of thanks. Now I am worried that they are pissed off for some reason about what I did, although I can't possibly figure out what could upset them. I also don't want to talk to them and look like I am fishing for praise. What would you do?
The area the apple tree fell on in Spring a few years ago.
Apple tree lying on top of my shrubs.
Most of my bushes bounced back after the cleanup. Yes, the red Japanes maple was completely buried!
Photo from the neighbor's side with the tree down.
Chopped up wood left for the neighbors.
My wife helping me with the cleanup on our side.
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