That is all very subjective. Girls are really smart and will also tell you that you have a big one. (a joke dude, try to follow along here xD) Its not like she is stupid and doesn't know what your into... If she says she can't hear it, you will talk for one hour about stuff she doesn't
really care about. If she tells you that there is a difference, ya never know if she is actually hearing something, or saying it first so you don't talk for an hour, but smile big and kiss her and then you listen to some music together, etc etc etc.
Not saying there is no hearable difference in your cables! But all your statement states as "scientific fact" CAN all be based on mind processes. This means your sound difference
could be based on mind processes as well.
I don't want to fight, my aim is only to train you for studio ears. Not golden or wooden ones. Armed with knowledge about your own minds "hearing" and your ears, schooled through the hated blind tests to perfection, you are actually a mile above a bunch of people.
Listen to some active studio monitors. I suggest Geithain 901k and 922k. They might just blow you away, correctly positioned, in a proper room and measured in. Fairly priced studio perfection.