Thanks for taking the time to put all that tigrther, that would have taken me six months lol. I don't know which of those is closest in color to the Exact, but I really am happy with the sound it produced the few times it felt like playing nice. It's funny, I know exactly what you mean when you say "polite" and I agree that's not typically a compliment, though not a deal breaker.
As for cleaning, I do the static brush and stylus brush every time, and I got a washer thingy a few months ago. I'm about a third of the way through my collection (alphabetical order) but I cherry picked the beach boys, bread, the cars, mort garson's plantasia (I can't recommend it in strong enough language but it's not for everyone),Fleetwood Mac, Motorhead, and slayer. The wife is a big fan of bass-heavy electronic dance music, so that corner of the collection got cleaned as well. If the house burned down but those records survived, I'd survive. I don't listen to a ton of classical on vinyl, but I'd like to correct that in the future. Not sure if that helps at all to match style to stylus

D see what I did there?) But it's what I'm currently working with. What about you? What's your top ten?