Sometimes, during a discussion such as this, it is worthwhile to start over and look at the basics.
First, high fidelity audio was developed to reproduce music in an environment different from the original performance in such a manner as to attempt to recreate the illusion of that live performance. The key word here is "music". Dog whistle is outside that definition, except maybe to the dog.
What do we have in music? Both the piano and violin go to C8 which is 4186 Hz fundamental. My ancient information, which may not be accurate, is that the 5th harmonic of a violin has nearly the same amplitude as the fundamental and the 7th harmonic still has significant energy. That would put us at 29,302 Hz. The piano has only slightly less energy in similar harmonics.
Here is a link to a paper that I am assuming was written by students for a thesis. They measured (maybe accurately, maybe crudely) harmonics from various instruments.
http://courses.physics.illinois.edu...hurman_Ivy_Thomas_Phys199pom_Final_Report.pdf
Graphs are down in the document a few pages. They even determined that a trombone, of all instruments, had measurable harmonic content up to 20,000 Hz. It appears that they did not go beyond 20,000 Hz.
So, maybe the frequency response of a "perfect" system should be extended to 30 kHz, but the next problem would be, "Who are you going to get to perform your music?" Arturo Toscanini (not my favorite by any means) was acclaimed by some to be the greatest conductor of the 20th century. Sorry, but you won't find any of his work even in stereo unless it's been artificially reprocessed. Many of the other great conductors from the era when they were still "performing" rather than "putting notes on a recording" (to be further manipulated in the back room afterwards) are simply dead! So, until something new is invented, the good performances are on analog tape masters complete with limited frequency response and tape hiss.
As for the dog whistle, that is a stand alone pure tone, and is not in the context of music. Frequencies above 20 kHz that are part of the music will usually (not in our violin playing C8) will be masked by lower frequency content to the extent that their existence or absence will not be (readily) noticed.
Even for those that can't actually hear the dog whistle but are affected by it, out of range frequencies can affect in range frequencies. Let's look at the other end of the spectrum: We can't hear DC, but if we put enough DC into a woofer to drive it to the limits of its suspension, anything else sent to it will be very badly distorted.