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Do family members hate your hobby? Or embrace it?

how about she left me took the kids and my vintage stuff grew tenfold because the kids only are here every other weekend so their b.r. 's make a great place to put my stacks of different brands of gear next on the agenda is remodeling my new loft with one big listening room it has it's own stage and elevator and a basketball court (on the second floor no ****!!!) the potential freaks me out
 
My Lady dislikes it but has allowed it to go on... She was at her limit until the past two weeks, when I brough home some valuable stuff from the Goodwills: Carver C-2. H/K Citation 22. Klipsch Heresy. I showed her examples of each on Ebay, and suddenly she was not so opposed!

The problem now is that I haven't sold any yet, and likely won't. I am currently using the Klipsch and plan to use the Carver as an analog preamp to go alongside my AV receiver. She HATED the Klipsch at first, saying "no way". However, I wired them up when she was away. One night of music, she says they can stay. 'Retha. George Clinton. The Gap Band. Thorogood We rocked it out, man those horns can crank.

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My family is quite supportive. My wife is comfortable with my buying decisions, as I've been able to demonstrate that more often than not I come out ahead when it's time to sell something. In other words, I'm not sticking money down the proverbial rat hole to pursue this hobby ($ tied up, yes, but we both have seen that this stuff is closer to an investment). She also knows how much I enjoy restoring, repairing and learning about electronics via these vintage audio units. Finally, she knows where I am - at home.

Now the fact that there are 50 or more vintage components in use or on display in select parts of the house does not necessarily delight her, but I try to keep things reasonably organized and attractive and she bears with it for the reasons set forth above.

My 15 year old son does not say much, but seems pleased that the old man likes to crank up the tunes on a good sound system and is certainly not embarrased to show off the collection to his friends. He has benefitted due to this hobby and has a vintage system of his own, including a classic Marantz CD-73 CDP and a pair of Altec Lansing 515 speakers (floorstanding ones with carbon fiber cones? I really like them, near mint at a GS for $5). I've offered him his pick of (almost) any of the other receivers to replace his Technics SA-5360, but he says he likes the system as it is.

My daughter is totally indifferent, as long as she has reasonable sound she is fine, so dad's hobby once again provides the method of delivery.
 
Originally posted by Gordy Smiff
The current Mrs Smiff is very tolerant, especially as I've turned our dining room into a recording studio, complete with 16 track recorder, full drum kit, seven guitars of differing breeds, monitors etc.

Pics, man! Pics!
 
I let them play their music on my equipment, which makes it sound better than anything that they have previously listened to it on. The wife is from Puerto Rico and if she wants to listen to her music, some CD's are OK, but I have a lot of Puerto Rican composers, mostly jazz in Quadraphonic that she really likes quite a lot. The kid likes Daddy Yankee and plays it on the computer sound system, which will rival anyone thing else out there. Besides, here taste in music stays on the label, totally clueless as to what other music is out there to listen to. A teenager....
 
I have the wife and two college age girls at home. They all love music but are not into the equipment aspect of things. My wife is accepting of my hobby, after all she met me as a DJ more than 30 years ago and has always understood my passion for music and equipment.
 
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