Well let's see - I have $100 in most of my Sony or Denon combo players (Burr-Brown) and you have maybe $3,000 (?) in your AstinTrew (the kind of coin I have in a whole system). My best TT is a JVC QL-Y5F bought used for $250 with a $350 cartridge and my lowest TT is a plastic Garrard for $30 with a Red-Ed. I'm in this as a hobby on wage earner numbers... I have no tube stages in anything. I might go there if I can find an affordable way to get that done...
So comparing at my level, Lawrence-lp makes perfect sense. Cheap BD and DVP's can produce acceptable output. They are not that far below the select Denon or Sony SQ, either by themselves, or into external DAC's. The difference between my best TT and my worst is quite a bit bigger than the differences between all my combo players (I sold my dedicated CD players long ago).
Thing is, I play mostly used CD's, just like I play mostly used LP's. It's really hit of miss on the quality of the source material... There are few finely crafted CDs in my library. There are few finely crafted LPs too. But they are the exception, not the norm. So since I do not have the source material to wring out the technology, I can't justify the expense of your AstinTrew.
It's not for desire, it's about family budget and family priorities... My wife thinks 3K worth of LP's and 1K worth of CDs is a bit over the top... She wants to know when and where I'll build decent custom cabinetry to store this stuff? She wants some of her book shelves back and I don't blame her... But I think her book library is a bit over the top at 1,800 so we are battling nuance here
I get smiles from my wife when she drops a disk or needle on one of the stereo systems. I like the sounds I hear too. I do critical listening on decent headphones, although I have speakers that are pretty revealing also. And I worked in the recording industry for a few years. I was even involved in building a QC studio for the recording engineers. My wife was a professional speech pathologist who did hearing test analysis and auditory cognition analysis among other pursuits. I guess we know our way around sound... It's pretty hard for either of us to have "bad" stuff around.
So we approach this, not as an absolute best-of rocket launch, but as a "that's really nice" sort of a budget hobby with modest, but meaningful results. In that scenario I'll have to side with Lawrence-lp. A little part of me wants the QC studio we assembled at GRT, but it would not really fit into our lifestyles and home arrangement. I can live with my compromises and make small discoveries as I go
I get the sense that most in this particular discussion are closer to me and my circumstances... I always appreciate hearing from the higher-ups, but can't really emulate your situation ...