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It's a p-mount, so there aren't any adjustments. And that's part of the problem. P-mount was developed as a standard by Technics. In order for a cartridge/stylus to function properly, the cartridge must weigh 6g and the stylus be designed to track at 1.25g. The only time where you can vary from the standard would be with the high end, p-mount tables that had adjustable tracking force, and those are few and far between.
The Grado weighs 5.5g and requires 1.5g of tracking force. In essence, then your cartridge is .5g too light, meaning you are tracking at .75g on a cartridge that requires 1.5g of TF. If you call Grado, they will not doubt give you a song and dance, but the fact is that they are ignorant or apathetic about p-mount standards.
The reason your Technics cartridge sounds so good is that it naturally adheres to the standard. So do the AT, Shure, and Stanton p-mounts. Ortofons do not, so you should avoid them along with Grado.
As a fix, if you can figure out a way to add .75g of weight to the cartridge end of the arm--maybe affix a coin or some putty--you will effectively solve the problem. But in the future always ask us first here at AK before purchasing anything.