IT LIVES! Thanks to all for your guidance!
installed the 100K Radio Shack Pot (link earlier in thread) and it works great! I needed to create some 'legs' to make the pot fit on the circuit board. Lucky i had the leg-trimmings from the components from my SX-980 powersupply recap on hand still. So I added the legs to the POT and lined up the wiper and two outer connections where pins 123 were on the old pot. I also needed to bend the legs so that the front of the pot was lined up with the front of the circuitboard. It looks a little precarious in teh picture, but those legs are pretty stiff, so I am not too concerned about them getting bent / shorting, though I may still go back and insulate them. The the volume does jump up pretty quick when i move from 0 to a minimal listening level, but it is pretty easy to dial in a comfortable volume.
I also tried hooking up the 4th pin on the pot to the loudness connection. It was interesting to hear. With the 4th pin connected, the volume knob output no sound for the first 30 degrees or so, then began giving volume after that. With the loudness switch engaged, i could hear the "loudness signal" (just the bass/treble that is added in to the normal sound) start ramping up as soon as i started rotating the pot. So it was JUST bass/treble for the first 30 degrees or so, then the regular volume kicked in and began to catch up w/ the "loudness signal". I never knew how a loudness circuit worked, so this was a neat decomposition to hear.
Anyway, the loudness thing was neat but obviously far from enjoyable to listen to. So I disconnected it, leaving just the 3 main pins connected and the Loudness circuit on the amp disabled. (I am assuming it is disabled since that 4th pin is disconnected and the button does not do anything anymore as far as I can hear.)
I still need to get the knob back on there. I read you can get joining sleeve of some kind to extend the shaft. then hopefully i can find an extension / tip that will connect with the original volume knob.
(photos to be uploaded in a moment from my phone)
Here they are...