The KAB fluid damper has nothing to do with regards to resonance or rumble. All it really does is prevent excessive vertical motion. In essence, it basically just helps it stay in the groove, especially with warped records. I would actually imagine that it would have better results for lighter VTF, but I haven't really tried it for that.
All that I know is that it made a significant improvement with my Denon DL-110. It just kind of tightened things up a bit, reducing the congested sound that I get from it when music gets dense and loud (I listen to a lot of metal, so this can be a noticeable problem). Given that I record straight to digital and only really listen through headphones anyway, I don't experience woofer pumping. Basically, the fluid damper should just be helping with tracking, thereby reducing tracking-related distortion. It's honestly been my best purchase thus far for the Technics.
As far as the Grado being better with the fluid damper, this pretty much holds with what I just stated. I've heard that Grados can have trouble with tracking sometimes, thus making the fluid damper's assistance in that area a real boon.
I don't think I still have my before and after damper recordings, otherwise I'd post them. Sorry. :/