You're right, adding the external crossover doesn't change the slope of the Infinity crossover per se, but the slopes will add together, afaik.
So, if the external is 6dB/octave and the internal is 6dB/octave, it would be a sum total of 12dB/octave.
I'll have to think about the "hole" theory a bit more. If the crossover slopes are symmetrical and one gets the center frequency of the external crossover matched to the internal crossover, then it might not be an issue - albeit steeper than the design intent.
EDIT: I have a Behringer DCX2496 on order for my "garage system" - due to arrive later this week. Since it's much too cold in the garage this time of year, I may have to do some experimenting with some other speakers along the lines of doubling up on crossovers, varying slopes, and varying center frequencies to gauge the various results.
whoaru99, is correct that using an external x-over will have an accumulative effect with the speakers own passive x-over and result in a dip in the frequency response. Remember that a x-over is not like a light switch, it is not on/off. The x-over "rolls off" the signal beyond its tuned frequency. What this means is that given the 90Hz x-over frequency between woofer and mid-bass of the 8 Kappas, the mid-bass is still producing some of the output below 90Hz and the woofer is still producing some of the output above 90Hz. The crossover must be carefully tuned to ensure that the frequency response of the system remains flat across the spectrum where both drivers are contributing to the audible output.
The level of the output produced beyond the crossover frequency is determined by the slope of the x-over. Assuming a slope of 12db/octave and a x-over point of 90Hz, the signal to the woofers and mid-bass would be attenuated as follows:
Woofer:
22.5 = 0db
45 = 0db
90Hz = 0db
180Hz = -12db (1/16 of original level)
360Hz = -24db (1/256 of orignal level)
Mid-bass
22.5Hz = -24db (1/256 of orignal level)
45Hz = -12db (1/16 of original level)
90Hz = 0db
180Hz = 0db
360Hz = 0db
Now it is important to keep in mind that these are the levels that are required to have a FLAT frequency response. For example, at 180hz a non-attenuated output from the mid-bass combined with an output from the woofer of 1/16 of the original level are BOTH required to have a flat overall response across this area.
So now let's add an external x-over to the system. If we set the external x-over to 90Hz with a slope of 6db/octave, a 180hz signal will already be down 6db (1/4 of original level) by the time it hits the speaker's x-over. The speakers x-over will still do its job and reduce the level it receives by 12db. So our 180Hz signal is now at -18db at the woofer, or 1/64 of the original level... a level that is TOO LOW to produce a flat response when combined with the mid-bass's output. The same effect will occur in the other direction, with the response dipped below the crossover frequency as the mid-bass is no longer contributing enough output to maintain an overall flat output.
In the case of the 8 Kappa there is no reason to us an external active crossover. In fact you are going to negatively effect the response of the speakers if you do. Generally people want to use an active crossover because they believe they are saving the amplifier from doing unnecessary work. This belief comes from a lack of understanding of the basic electronic principles at work. The mechanism that causes a signal to be attenuated at frequencies beyond the x-over point is a rise in impedance. As the frequency of the signal gets further away from the crossover point the impedance of the overall circuit (speaker driver and x-over together) limits the flow of current, which limits driver movement, and thus sound level.
Let's look at this in the context of the 8 Kappas. We will assume the impedence of the mid-bass-and-up circuit is 4ohm. If the slope of this x-over is 12db/octave, then the impedance our amplifier sees on this circuit at 45hz is 64ohm, at 22.5hz it sees 1024ohm. These high impedances limit the flow of current from the amplifier. Since the "work" of the amplifier is the delivery of current (a topic that deserves a thread all its own), the amplifier has less and less "work" to do the further the signal goes beyond the x-over frequency. The only difference between using the active and passive crossover is where the current limiting mechanism occurs, but the end result is the same - an easier job for the amplifier's output stage and power suppply.
The last thing I will say is that on the 8 or 9 Kappas you should be careful with using different amps for the woofers and mid-bass-and-up. About half of the energy in music exists in the 90-900Hz band that is covered by the Kappa's mid-bass coupler. It is logical then that HALF of your amplifier power should be made available in this range. Additionally, if you use different amps, they may have different input impedances which causes more of the signal to be sent to one amp over the other and results in an imbalanced overall response. So keep this in mind if things don't sound right.
HTH,
Rob