In addition to listening around town and other research, this thread was one I read with great interest before making my speaker & amp purchase ~6 weeks ago. I went from thinking I'd get something like a NAD amp paired with something like middle-of-their-range floorstanding Totem speakers.
Had I kept to my budget, I would have been very happy with a such a combination - excellent stuff and a 'reasonable' price point and evidence of what great stuff is available along the whole price spectrum. However, I listened to Mac for the first time in years, and some of the higher-end speakers. What dawned on us (was bringing Boss Girl along to work the WAF

) was that we'd end up upgrading a bunch since opening Pandora's box by looking at equipment better than what's available at the chain stores for the first time in years. Yes, my ascetic discipline broke down!:yes:
Bottom-line: we figured we'd get what we really like, starting with the speakers & power amps (3x501s driving B&W802Ds & a HTM2D, with a 402 to come to drive the 803Ds in the back), then build upstream (pre/pro and sources). That way, since the "electronics" have a much shorter half-life, we may buy the successor models to what's current. Right now, I'm running a current model Yamaha receiver as my pre/pro and enjoying it all compared to the 25 year old Infinity speakers I just moved up to the bedroom.
All of us have differing needs and paths to the ideal system (and really enjoy following Ivan's journey:drool

. So far, this has worked for me once I became serious about sinking some real money in to a system.
As has been said by others of their systems, it's a bit overkill for the room now, but that doesn't take away from the enjoyment, and maybe the next house will have a listening room built around the setup!:scratch2: