That's exactly what I am hoping to learn here. I have quite a few T4P TTs ranging from cheap to high end and I'd like to get a top range cart for at least one of them.
The problem is, there's not much top range currently in production in p-mount cartridges. Here's some things I've tried on my Technics SL-M3 and SL-MA1, both high end p-mount turntables with adjustable tracking weight (and anti-skate, on the pivot arm SL-MA1). Most of these involve combining cartridges (new, used, or new-old-stock) with different stylus than they are currently sold with, if they are still for sale. Again, some of these ideas won't work well unless your table has a way to adjust the tracking force.
Ortofon: The TM and OMP bodies can use the 20, 30 and 40 stylii from the OM series. They also still make the last p-mount moving coil cartridge, the HOMC X1-MCP, which I really like.
Audiotechnica: There are hyperelliptical and Shibata aftermarket stylii for their current range of "boxy" p-mount cartridges. LPGear sells them already assembled (as mentioned above), or you can put one together yourself. There's also a discontinued line of AT p-mounts, the 1x2 series, that have some nice stylii available, or you could use a 120E or 440ML stylus.
Technics: The only SAS stylus that JICO sells for a p-mount cartridge, is for the P22/P23 and related bodies. I have not tried this one yet, but its on my to-do list for when I have some mad money.
Shure: The M92E, their only p-mount in production, as a low-end stylus, but it is upgradable. I've got a NOS N110HE (hyperelliptical), and JICO has several options too. Also be on the lookout for used p-mount bodies of earlier models that may be an improvement on the M92E body.
ADC: I'm a big fan of my used Digital Series IV p-mount cartridge, paired with a NOS RPSX-40 stylus I bought from LPGear.
Pickering/Stanton: The Pickering TL series and the Stanton L7x7 series were the p-mount versions of the Pickering XV-15 and Stanton 680/681. If you can find a used body, there's some great stereohedron stylii available. I've got a pair of Stanton D74S stylii that sound wonderful in these. There's also a website selling old stock Pickerings at pickeringuk.com
Anyway, there's some ideas.