Your player was probably part of a combo package (like we saw in dept. stores) and used proprietary connectors and cables. Sony had some, too. Might have been hooked to a small box that the remote would transmit to. Later circuitry was incorporated in each unit making these connections obsolete.
Considering the prices of used cd players with/ without remotes. the orig. remotes or workable replacement remotes aren't costly.
I looked up the model and North American models don't have that connection on the back.. Only the EU models. Hmmm