You can use any preamp with any amplifier, provided both are within industry specs. Nothing will "blow".

. The only thing to watch out for is gain-matching, that is, making sure sure the preamp doesn't have too much or too little gain for your amplifier, otherwise you might either overdrive the input of the amplifier, or lose dynamics if you don't have enough gain. Except for some "boutique" pieces, this should not be a problem.
In terms of which is better, it really depends on your needs. How much power do you need to drive your speakers? If they require a lot of power, a SS amp might be better, with a tube preamp to add some tube sound. Tube preamps are generally very easy to maintain. Tube amplifiers, OTOH, can require some maintenance and expense, usually checking tube bias and replacing output tubes on a regular basis. They also generate a lot of heat.
But if your speakers are fairly easy to drive, and you want to hear the full-on tube magic, a tube amplifier will get you more of that than a tube preamp alone.
A high-quality tube preamp can be just as good as a SS preamp, so it really depends on the sound you prefer. One advantage (or some may say disadvantage) of a tube preamp (or amp) is that you can usually adjust the tone by choosing different brands of tubes. SS preamps and amps are what they are. Hope this helps.