Why do so many sellers want to use paypal friends and family? With regular paypal, you have some protection as opposed to none at all with F&F. Plus, you can always specify that the buyer pays the fees. Plus, it is cheating paypal. Call me old fashioned, but if you choose to use their system, you should be willing to play by their rules. If you think their fees are too high, then don't use them. I am guilty of having used F&F for a transaction, but I regret it. So, why use F&F?