I have no issue with the idea that science and hearing may disagree on what sounds good. A speaker that tests better response-wise may not sound better to my ears - I've personally heard that happen several times. The Heil AMT-1 would literally drive me from the room due to what I heard as painfully bright treble. But the response curve was quite good as I recall.
What I wonder about though is when we hear a perceived difference over time, are we really hearing an actual difference or are we just getting accustomed to the sound? That difference - for good or ill - should be able to easily be measured. IOW, if the bass really does get better (deeper), the old/new response curve would clearly show that.
Another "ear thing" that is quite common is the need to turn up the volume after extended listening to get the same satisfaction as you did when you first sat down. To me, that fits into the same concept… but did the speakers change in that relatively short period or did ears/brain perception change?
Oh well…it's not THAT hard to buy some speakers and then box them up, send them back.
Too often people place too much value in "specs", mostly I'd say sensitivity. Where there is little play room in budget, room size, etc. I feel sensitivity may play a larger role.
That aside, I agree totally. I don't know how many times I've tried to listen to speakers that make me want to leave the room that others swear up and down are the bees knees in sound reproduction. I don't fault them. I don't criticize them. They simply have different hearing from myself, or I from them. Depending of course on how you wish to look at it. JBL speakers I've listened to, and own, too bright for me. HPM speakers, again I own and have owned, too bright for me.
However. I have found some selections of recordings that benefit from these attributes. So while they are not the answer to all my listening, they do serve well with certain selections.
However, what you touch on is most important and that is acclimatization. Our ears are amazingly adaptable. As long as what we are listening to hasn't extreme anomalies (too bright, too dead, etc.) our ears will acclimatize and what we are listening to will invariably get better over time. It's when we deal with extremes that not even our ears can adapt. Maybe too bright a tweeter. Maybe too dull. Maybe too "bloated" bass. Extremes are things we can't often adapt to, so thankfully we have choice. Sadly, however, some people are really sensitive about other peoples opinions. Your ears can, and likely will, adapt much faster than the break in period of ANY speaker system.
Send back? That is the part I wonder about with 400+ hrs. What if the "break in" time exceeds the point of "no return". If that were the case, I'd pass before laying down ANY coin for those speakers. Without the benefit of listening before buying, I doubt I'd ever buy "new" online. I buy used, based on feedback. What I don't like, I flip. I haven't yet lost money, so works OK for me.
As to the "ear thing", yes your ears adapted. In economics they teach students about "diminishing returns". It's a brilliant concept that often can be applied to many subject areas. One which many people can and should learn about.