Here are the values that I measured from a 5k "volume" pot that I ordered from one of our favorite parts suppliers. Scroll down for the plots. They said it was a 10% pot, and they were mostly right. I didn't do this very precisely - just turned the shaft a little and took another measurement.
Glad I didn't save another buck and get the 20% one ! ! !
My conclusion is that I want a stereo volume pot with gangs that are within at least 1% of each other. 1% stepped attenuators (23 steps) from Hong Kong are ~ $25, and conductive plastic ones go for about 3 times that. Both are advertised as "make before break" so there should be no speaker popping as you adjust the volume.
The 5k pot will give 20X finer adjustment than say a 100k pot, so I'm wondering if it would be practical to finese the position of the gain pot to get to the range taht you want. That is, if the preamp design calls for a 25k gain resistor, could you put a 5k pot between two 10k resistors?