I think every forum has its own sort of flavor and cliquish 'norms.'
(I like Auduioscientologists! I will change from calling them the Asperger's Syndrome Regiment.)
To over-generalize:
ASR, Hydrogen Audio...they like them their measurements and a focus on minimizing/squelching individual idiosyncrasies. Sort of a cookie cutter approach where once they get a certain "SINAD," their desktop systems become 'finished business' and everything sounds the same, no matter how different it sounds. They police the population looking for any heretical notions of subjective listening as part of the fun. (All cables, fuses, interconnects, etc. are the same, no argument.)
What's Best Forum: More cost = more better. Lots of social positioning with price being the arbiter of performance. There is a certain product clique that qualifies for joining the 'best' group, and they police the crowd to make sure that affordable audio is not allowed to be considered part of what's 'best.' "Everything matters," but only within the constraints of what has already been established as mattering. Point out the strict borders they enforce and more policing commences. (All cables, fuses, interconnects, etc. are ten veils different and the more they cost, the obviously better they become, no argument.) Lots of jockeying for position, so to speak.
Hi Fi Haven: Nice folks all along the spectrum, and value placed on personal perspectives. Members look to be generally supportive of one another and congeniality is emphasized. A calm forum, in general! Great DIY chat and help.
Audio Karma: A bustling burg of enthusiasm, with emphasis on the golden age of audio - the glory of tubes all the way through when SS changed in the 1980s into the modern era of disposable products. Vintage receivers revered and the value of keeping fine gear alive and well is respected. All budgets allowed, mush less price flexing, and a great mix of hobby talk and flat out socializing. Kind of the hub of the "all around joy" of the hobby. Great DIY chat and help.
Of note: the commerce portions of Hi Fi Haven and Audio Karma are loaded with hobbyists who aren't out to squeeze every penny they can out of fellow members. There seems to be a true desire to maintain high levels of joy and accessibility on these two site! You can probably guess my favorite two sites.
I can't emphasize this next thing enough:

I would host/toast with anybody I've met here!