Scuffing up the paddle is an incorrect action. These paddles have a finish like emery paper and scuffing it up puts trenendous stress on the pimple contact surface.
The first 1019 I ever rebuilt was in 2010, a gift to my daughter for her twentieth birthday. I resurfaced the paddle in the same manner as mentioned above and the table has been spinning flawlessly with no problems ever since. In this case as well as the 1019 I did for myself a few years ago, after cleaning the paddle surface you could see a noticeable arc where the pimpel had worn the surface down significantly. There is no way that a light, careful cross hatch resurfacing is going to introduce "tremendous stress" to the pimpel contact surface. Perhaps if one were to grind the paddle with 80 grit and use no grease, I could see this as being an issue.
The subject has been brought up many times over on VE. I don't think it's quite the issue you're making it out to be.