Words have connotations and over time audiophile has garnered some very negative ones.....snobbery....excessive tinkering and tweaking reducing the chance of enjoying the music.
Audiophile: one who plays music so he or she can find a reason to F%#K with the equipment.
If you can afford the gear, desire or want the gear, by all means purchase the gear and enjoy it. If enjoyed, and not bragged about or used for some kind of self imposed status symbol, and if you got it for the quality of the listening experience, fine. Nothing wrong with that.
I personally don't like messing with equipment at all. I'd rather just listen to it. Hook it up, play it, and hope it just doesn't malfunction. That's what I'm looking for!!!!!!!!
All I'm trying to do, and 'still trying to do' it seems, is get quality gear, new or used, together...that "just doesn't malfunction"! My problem is: The old stuff is tooooo old and the new stuff is junk and just falls apart. The new equipment has the lifespan of a knat.
Now my 'brand new NAD CD player' is giving me problems. It never ends. I know one thing for sure, I'll never buy any NAD ever again. 4 CDs play fine and the 5th one jams, like that (CDs are perfect). It is under warantee. NAD told me that it needs a 'new transport system, send it in'. Wonderful. More broken brand new stuff. Another item 'broken brand new', like the new Sony DVD player I bought that malfunctioned and I ended up smashing on the driveway one night. That was satisifying, not smart, but satisifying just the same. Just got a new $200 Sony digital camera...broken brand new. Took it back. I can list many more items, I just don't understand what it is about 'new' stuff?
I REALLY MISS the 70s when you could buy 'really quality gear' and it worked for 30 to 35+ years and sounded superior to today's equipment. (Sorry, to me they just 'sounded better', better quality componets, better engineering, better circuit design, better transformers, hand built, better enjoyment, better everything, and they just - didn't - fall - apart - brand - new). You bought it, it worked, perfect.
Anyway...If you can afford the new expensive audiophile gear, buy it to enjoy it. I think that may be ONE of the sore spots with the term "audiophile". The greater majority of people, by far, like maybe 98%, can't afford audiophile equipment. It's like audiophile is more associated with a wealthy person's game, like having a Ferrari. Something like that.
For us regular folks, all we really can do is get a 'nice sounding quality system' together, maybe an excellent TT and really nice cart, some very nice sounding speakers. But it's stuff we can afford. So are we, or can we, or can we ever be audiophiles too? Can we get in the "audiophile club"??? ...I know I'm not an audiophile, and don't really care to be. I'm happy being a Sansui Guy!!! LOL. I just like listening to music and don't analyze anything. I listen for enjoyment.
But...when my present amp breaks down guess I will be getting a Bryston. At least they have 20 year warrantee, or whatever it is. I could really use that and I've heard those Brystons really sound like the old Sansui gear, which is the sound I enjoy, audiophile or not.
So that's what I think about audiophile.
Audiophile is the best word for audiophile.