people drift that way and do not even realize it. Is sort of what I did. Like an idiot got rid of all my real good gear at one time. Then picked up all I could afford at the time, a mid level mass market piece of crud. After a while, you start getting used to it, do not even realize just how bad it is.
Then CD's came out, who needs vinyl - no cleaning records, no flipping them over, no need to record cassettes....so much easier with cd.
Then after a bit, again, u get used to it as that what everyone around you is doing.
Ahhh, the mp3's come out. What "bliss" - listening to it now on a mass market stereo, so sounds just as good as a cd, maybe not quite as good, but so convenient. Download and go.
Now is so easy to fill up your library with all of the songs you want. Get a 500 gig hard drive and you think you have it all.
Times goes by, you just get used to listening to it, even the mass market stereo starts to dwindle as you only listen to mp3's now - just so proud you have 8,000 songs you like, using Itunes is so easy to get any song you want, instantly.
Then of course you want a surround sound for your tv. used to listening to mp3's for the last decade, why do I need to spend so much, end up picking up a Yamaha Surround for under $400.00.
Ahhh, movies sound so good now. Got my big old Pioneer HPM-100's as the mains, pleasing the wife, plus no ear left, put in those in ceiling speakers so I can hear the jets whoosing by...
Stereo now basically consists of a surround sound receiver and speakers, use your laptop of course for the source.
Isn't technology great.
Then one day you are talking to your son about music. Trying to explain to him why just because they say it is 1000000 watts per channel, that does not make good music.
Foggy memories start coming back to you. All that time you used to spend with your friends, debating for hours over beer why you thought TDK sounded better then Maxell tape.
Dawns on you suddenly just how far you have drifted.
Surely though the memory is not as good as it really was, just like all my old girlfriends were gorgeous.
Still thinking about the talk you had with your son, you decide to get a few pieces of vintage gear, mainly for memory's sake.
On a whim, you buy a Marantz 2216 receiver, just like the very first piece of component gear you ever had, you had your dad buy it for you for your 16th birthday. You think back how your dad thought you were crazy, why get that when for the same amount of money you could get a all in one unit.
Day comes when the Marantz gets to your house. Anxiously, to relive old memories, you hook it up to the computer, to play those mp3's of course.
Fortunately you do still have a pair of HPM-100 speakers.
The VERY moment the sound comes thru your speakers, everything comes flooding back. The sound out of this under $100 receiver just blows away what you have been listening to for decades.
Then, it all comes back, just how far you have fallen.
Next thing you know, the same guy and ear you had re-emerges and you find yourself once again addicted to finding that perfect sound for you.
So, for me, I totally understand how it happens. If you do not have anyone around with a decent system, as time goes by, it is very, very easy to forget what music is supposed to sound like.
Sorry so long