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Just learned a friend of mine passed away last month

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Kinda bummed right now, I just learned that a friend of mine passed away last month. Ted was an older gentleman in his late 60s, I met him a couple of years ago through Freecycle, and he gave me a turntable, as well as some other pieces of equipment. He said he didn't want any money for them, I offered to get him a nice TV for his apartment (he lived in an assisted living place), but he already had two large flat screens. It was getting near Christmas, I asked if he wanted me to bring him a Christmas tree, or decorations, cookies etc. but he said he was fine.

About the end of May/June this year, we were talking, and he mentioned he had a couple of pieces of equipment that needed fixing, and asked if I could take them somewhere to have them fixed. I told him I could do one better, and offered to fix them myself. He had a Nakamichi DR-1 cassette deck, and a Sony DTC-ZE700 DAT deck. I ordered the belts for the Nak, installed them and gave it a good clean up, and made some test recordings. Of course, I couldn't take any money from him for the repair. He mentioned that he didn't like the food in his new place, so when I took the Nak back, I brought with me some nice tortellini alfredo from a nearby restaurant that does good food. He enjoyed the food, and I got an e-mail from him a couple of days later saying it was a pleasure having the cassette deck back, and he hoped it lasted for another 20 years.

I took the DAT player with me at this time. Things had been a little bit hectic for me over the summer, what with taking my daughter to a local water park three days a week and teaching her to swim. I finally got around to looking at Ted's DAT player last Thursday, and using a thread here on AK, I managed to get it working. I e-mailed Ted the week before to apologize for not getting to it sooner. I then e-mailed him last Friday to say that I'd fixed it. After I didn't hear back from him, I tried calling his cellphone, but it went straight to voicemail. Monday this week, I called his assisted living place, and said I hadn't heard from him and was worried. They never called back, so tonight (Wednesday), I called them again, and they gave me the number for his brother. After a couple of missed calls, I spoke to his brother for about 30 minutes, this was my first time speaking to him. He told me that Ted had a stroke, and passed away on September 6th. I knew he had problems with diabetes, but whether this was related to the stroke I don't know. I plan on sending the DAT deck to Ted's brother sometime this week or next week.

RIP Ted, it was nice to have known you, sorry I didn't get your DAT deck fixed sooner.

Lee.
 
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Sorry for your loss. Sounds like you made his life a little better during rough times. Good AudioKarma to you!
 
The saying goes: 'A friend in need is a friend indeed'. Which is very true here, Lee! Very sorry for your loss; and the way that you had to find out. He went, knowing that he'd got at least one good friend though, didn't he.

Cheers, og
 
Sounds like you added a good deal of friendship to his life. I'm sorry to hear of his passing but I'm glad you were able to enjoy hanging out with him.:yes:
 
Give yourself a big pat on the back for being such a good friend to him. I am sure that you brought a little joy back into his life in the short time that you got to know him.

Take care.
 
Sorry for your loss, but thanks for sharing your story. It gives everyone hope that there are indeed good people out there. Well done.
 
Sorry to hear of this news Lee, sounds like he was a member here without even logging in. :sadwave:
 
So sorry to hear that your friend has passed, Lee! Sending a prayer to you, friends, & family that comfort keeps you in peace.

Rome
 
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