To me, there is a very simple solution that doesn't require any crossovers and likely won't require any EQ either.
For lows: Add a powered sub, driven by the receiver pre-amp left/right outputs (don't use the left/right speaker outputs to drive the sub if you are applying EQ to the 901's). The sub has a built-in crossover and level control that will allow you to tune it to blend with the Bose 901's -- that's all you need for the bass. The external crossover does not help you at all for the sub, nor does EQ, either one would make things worse for sub performance.
Sub requirements: 1. Sub must have left and right RCA inputs (some subs only have a mono LFE input). 2. Generally, a sealed sub is better for music than a ported sub (ported are more efficient, but tend to have group delay that makes it more difficult to time align with mains). 3. Probably better to have a phase knob rather than a phase switch (for time-alignment with 901's).
For Highs: Add a super-tweeter with adjustable crossover and adjustable level (this will allow you to fill out the highs and tune them to blend with the 901's (e.g. the Super-tweeter takes over where the 901's start trailing off). This will give you much better control and better quality treble than trying to blend in bookshelf speakers with tweeters. Unfortunately super-tweeters (powered by speaker-wire) will pick up any EQ you do on 901's, but you won't need to boost highs with super-tweeters in the system. The Aperion Audio Planar-Ribbon Super Tweeter (back panel control picture shown below) are $299 a pair on Amazon.
For Mids: Power 901's with the receiver speaker outputs, you likely won't need any EQ with a sub and super-tweeter tuned properly. If you do decide to add EQ, you can buy some high quality 10 or more band eq's for not very much on auction sites since analog EQ's aren't really in favor these days (for whatever reason). I've got to imagine that a 10-band can give you more control than the bass/treble Bose EQ (<- but I have
NO experience with the Bose EQ unit, so hopefully somebody will correct me if I'm wrong).