Dropping in on the end of a regular thread about relays is looking for anonimity. Not many see this thread. all the way to the end, but you are getting good answers.
My concern about your issue is that you want someone that has put a relay in a specific model and post in this used thread. You would have much more visibility if you had started your very own thread and asked that question in the title. Folks scanning the boards seeing Carver TMF-15 Relay in the title might just hit the brakes, lock up the wheels and post up their information...if they had experience with that particular amplifier. Otherwise you are working in this thread with some good techs asking for more info to get you a recommendation. We'll be back as your info flows in to find a relay, well the guys that know, I'm just curious about the result. Good Luck.