Well here is what I'm doing in the meantime-
I had done the crossover mod listening to each step, and observed the following: when I changed the mid cap from to 4.4uf to 10uf, this was the worst thing ive ever heard in my life, there was a huge volume jump in high mids, not an even-volume extension of lower mid content from the midrange as I expected.
Adding in the 0.9 inductor somehow calmed this down and the bass and low mids returned to a reasonable balance, and this the state of my previous post, just too much treble and upper mid blare, I will say that CDs behaved alot better than the phono, where some pressings are fine and some just unlistenable.
My recent trial was to return the mids cap to 4.4uf, while leaving the 0.9 inductor in place. So far this is the setup I am happiest with, there is a reduction in volume across the entire mid band, the upper mids stay within a reasonable volume threshold, there is more 'space' and clarity between instruments, and I'm certain that the channel separation and soundstage is far improved and dimensional. The CD player now is more consistent with the phono preamps. I tried this again with upping the mid cap to 7uf, but the result was too close to the 10uf behavior and i returned to the 4.4uf.
So unless I find further bandpass type mods, this is the setup I will keep.
info- room is 14x14ft, probably the smallest space these speakers should be in
all listening comparisons with the mid+trb levels set at 0
setup is EAR834 copy, refreshed dynaco PAS3X, dynaco curcio mk3s, various old shure, ADC qlm, AT cartridges