Nice Shovel, I have a '75 FXE with custom Fatbobs and an '80 FXEF.
To use the pre-amp section of the SX-1250 as your primary input selector, while still using its power amp for 1 or 2 sets of speakers AND have another 1 or 2 sets of speakers connected to the SA9100 you need pair of RCA Y cables/adapters. Here's how to do it:
Remove the jumpers from the pre-out and power-in jacks on the back of the SX-1250, connect one of the Y cables to the left pre-out, and the second plug of same Y to the left power-in of the SX-1250. This keeps the SX-1250 functioning as normal. Connect the third Y connection plug to the left Aux input of the SA9100. This sends whatever input signal you have selected on the SX-1250 to the SA-9100 when you select AUX on the SA-9100. Follow the same instructions but change 'left' to 'right' for the other channel. This keeps the SA-9100 tone, loudness, balance and volume controls available (only) for the speakers connected to the SA-9100. With this setup the SX-1250 tone, loudness, balance and volume controls work for BOTH amplifiers. To only listen to speakers connected to the SX-1250 leave the SA9100 power off. To listen only to speakers connected to the SA-9100 set the SX-1250 A, B and C speaker selector buttons disengaged. When running both amps at the same time the volume on the SA-9100 can be used to 'match' the volume level of it speakers to the volume of the SX-1250 speakers volume (within limits of its power output). Unless you are trying to bi-amp or tri-amp your speakers, or drive a subwoofer with the SA-9100, no crossover is needed. Using the tape outputs from the SX-1250 eliminates the ability to control the signal level
to the SA-9100 with the SX-1250 volume control.
With this setup you can also connect a tape deck, tuner or turntable to the SA-9100 and play them (only) from the SA-9100 speakers. This setup also works great for putting a set of speakers in another room connected to the SA-9100 to play from it.
FWIW, One more thing to note: both the SX-1250 and the SA-9100 have connections for three sets of speakers, but will only allow two pair from each amp to be active at the same time. You may already know this, I just wanted to be sure. Potentially you can have 6 pairs connected and play any 4 at the same time, (depending on speaker impedance).
Here is a picture of a cable that would work:
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You would need two of these, I would connect white to the pre-out, red to the power-in of the SX-1250 and purple to the SA-9100 AUX input, keeping left to left on one cable and right to right or the other cable.
I have done it exactly this way with an SX-1050 and an SX-780, works like a charm.
Sorry if that is too much info, I was on a roll

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