Hail goat and David,
Goat, as David has explained, you have many options. Yes, I have the active croosover box with my RS 4.5's. As far as I know, it was not an option, it was part of the package. Back then, it was a critical part of the package, but, not so now because you can obtain an after market one that does the same job. When I say critical part of the package I mean that if you want to "properly" bi-amp the RS 4.5's, which is highly recommended to "get the most" out of them, you need a FIRST ORDER active crossover box. Or you can buy a crossover box which is "dialable" as to the order. Behringer for example sells one.
So, you do not have to bi-amp the RS 4.5's, however if you do, the results will be spectacular.
As far as bi-amping without an active crossover box, you certainly can. What the active crossover box brings to the table is that it will only send the selected frequency range to the power amplifier that you select for that range. This lessens the load on the power amplifier BIG TIME, which is really what bi-amping is all about. With an active crossover box, you have the ability to send the mid/high frequencies to different amplifiers than the low frequencies. This reduces the work on the stereo amplifier and leaves more available current to handle the dynamic range of music. This is also why I am a big proponent of vertical bi-amping as opposed to horizontal bi-amping. If you are unfamiliar with the terms, veritical bi-amping means using two amplifiers(one stereo amplifier) for one loudspeaker and two amplifiers(one stereo amplifier) for the other.
Identical power amplifiers are not mandatory, and many folks have different opinions about the best setup and that is probably because there might not be the best setup. I personally, after experimentation with many loudspeakers, think that the best results are with, if not identical power amplifiers, ones with similar available current and wattage, preferably the same make. This is probably because as I stated earlier, I find that vertical bi-amping is the way to go. Power amplifiers with the same or similar capabilities will help create a coherant soundstage. The reason for this is that the "big" vintage Infinities claim to fame, justifiably so, is a huge, coherant soundstage. Surely the EMIT's, EMIM's and Watkin's woofers contribute to that, however, it is more than that. The passive crossovers are key here in that each driver has disimilar demands for current. Ensuring that ample current is always available for the drivers within an RS 4.5 loudspeaker can best be acheived through vertical bi-amping with high current power amplifiers because that way, the enormous responsibility of driving four Watkins woofers is not settled on one power amplifier, but two. Additionally, at high volume the EMIM's and EMIT's want a decent share as well.
So, if you can not afford or want to pick up a FIRST ORDER capable active crossover box, you can bi-amp them with good, not the best, but good results and pick up a box later on. Try out vertical and horizontal for your self and see what you like.
My RS 4.5's are vertically bi-amped by two Phase Linear 700 using the active crossover box. My RSIIA's are also vertically bi-amped by two Bell Labs Phase Linear 700's.
I hope that this helps.
Vito