The [original] reed relay in the CA-3000 is a Hitachi part of a long obsolete type. I had suggested an Electrol reed relay - also obsolete, but presently available in some quantity on ebay - as a direct sub. Turns out it not quite dimensionally identical (my mistake) but was reasonably adaptable; Leestereo and I discussed the matter briefly via PM after he had installed it.
It is a good match electrically as both the coil voltage and resistance is identical to the OE part, and has the same pinout. The Electrol part does have a slightly longer body than the Hitachi part, so be aware of that.
That said, I'm picturing that the reed relay under discussion is a different design (epoxy coated with lead wires rather than plastic end caps with PCB pins) so I doubt the Electrol part could be used directly without a daughter board to mount it just due to differences in the form factor.
I've run into this epoxy covered reed relay in an SE-99 eq. In that case it was an NEC part and had a rusty red color epoxy coating. I've seen a variant with a dark green coating as well, but don't recall exactly where; possibly in a cassette deck. I don't believe there is any current source for a direct replacement, this type of reed relay package looks to have been dropped entirely by around 1986 or so. In short, plan on some sort of adaptation.