Where do you go shopping for records? I've been hitting Siren Records in Doylestown PA with mixed results :scratch2:
E this is going to sound like bragging but it's not meant as such, but the aforementioned relative, my cousin - who also happens to be one of my closest friend's since we were born - is very generous, so I don't really have to spend as much time "in the field" as I used to, looking for records.

However, I occasionally go to Princeton Record Exchange. They always have a ton of used records, and almost always something I'd want, but their grading is iffy in recent years. Perhaps this has to do with what the OP is talking about?
Aside from that, I'm extremely picky about what vinyl I buy now because I have too many records (I know, impossible), so I either hit the internet or add something to my cousin's list to watch out for on my behalf. I usually look for very specific things now, and yes, I'm incredibly spoiled by the internet as well, IMO.
THey do do that I even posted about their buyers are having a harder time finding good collections. Perhaps your relatives shop has less competition for records in his area.
Perhaps around here their is more competition for records than in many other places. We have 5 record shops and enough flippers to have a record fair bi-monthly. that's a lot of competition for one area. Lets stop attacking one record shop for their practices of trying to keep prices low. I should have left the name of the shop out of it.
I'm sorry I missed your comment about their buyers having trouble finding good collections. I believe it. However, since my cousin is in Brooklyn, the competition is pretty fierce, and he does most of the collection-hunting on his own. From what he tells me, most of what he finds is junk, but in many cases there will be a few records that make it worth buying the entire lot (if that's his only option); he finds gold all the time, but there's lots of time and traveling involved.
To be fair, since he's got a smaller operation right now he's able to focus on high quality. I do not envy those record store owners who have to deal with a large stock, in this, or any time period.