That's me,too . Except for the singing part, I'm terrible.
I just think of them as two different(but enjoyable) experiences. If somebody asked me if I was a BBQ person or a French cuisine person, I would say, "yes, yes I am".
Yes, yes I am. Terrible singing never stops me from joining in anyway. My life has a soundtrack. Whether I'm in the truck or working in the barn or doing dishes or... I've generally got music on. Sometimes I sit back in the comfy chair with the lights down low and get lost in the music but I like to have music for the rest of my life too.