I am a firm believer that if you think it sounds good, it does.
I have two audio buddies that have both been into audio for a very long time. Although they both don't know each other, they separately come over from time to time and we end up listening to my system. Although I never ask for their input, they both seem obligated to give it. One of them is always very complimentary and likes the direction and progress I have made in finding a good sounding system. The other one is not necessarily negative, but he focuses more on the gaps in my system that keeps it from being perfect.
Sometimes I think both these guys don't really care about the music I am actually playing but only on how the system is playing it?
I appreciate both of their inputs to some degree but I have to say I have learned to mostly ignore both of them. Just because one of them is satisfied with what he hears does not mean I am, and just because the other is not satisfied does not mean that I am not. I think audio expectations are a very personal thing and completely subjective by nature.
I guess it is a complement to me when I go to their homes and they go out of their way to get feedback from me on their systems. I just say it sounds nice. Then I focus on talking about music and listening to some.... Drives them both crazy!
I guess it depends weather you have a system so you can listen to music or have music so you can listen to your system.