If two sets of speakers are so close that you 'get confused' while conducting blind testing, than it would be very likely that both are very close in performance. If they are that close, choose the one that pleases you, or that looks better to you, or that costs more, or less, or whatever floats your boat.
It's obvious that you didn't read or absorb a single word I said. I never said the speakers sounded the same -- that is the exact
opposite of what I said. What I said, is that when you are listening to two foreign speakers (that sound different), in a short-term listening test, you can't help but focus individually on many different aspects of the sound individually (I listed 8 examples of sound characteristics). If they are roughly the same
quality of speakers (
not that they sound the same), each speaker will fare better in some categories and worse in others for those 10 or so individual areas. You can hear all of those differences in all those different areas easily, it's just that summing up those 10 areas into determining which of those speakers will sound best long-term in your home with all the different types of music you listen to is very difficult (especially when you only have a handful of different tracks you use to evaluate them in a short-term test).
On the other hand, when you are intimate with speakers in your own home from months or years of listening to every type of music you like, and then you swap in a new speakers, it is very easy to determine which is better, at least in my experience. You don't even need to A/B. I just went through that with new speakers that I expected to blow away my 20-year-old speakers. I knew right away the new speakers were worse, and confirmed it over weeks. I never needed to A/B test, I did put my old speakers back in after a couple of weeks and it confirmed what I had learned, but I didn't need to even go back to know. You may not like that approach, which is your right, but to call it crap is crap.
You should know that most of the people preaching "science" have no science background at all. None. They are extrapolating off of a handful of third-party experiments and applying them universally to every piece of equipment that exists. That extrapolation is totally unfounded and is the opposite of science. Most of them don't have any experience either, because of their "science" and irrational fear of subjectivity (despite the fact that subjectivity plays a role in
everything we form an opinion on -- only in audio is subjectivity "poison" that "scientists" say precludes value in experiencing anything ever).
There is no argument that subjectivity has no place in our lives and decision-making. That's the red herring in your argument. Nobody cares what you choose to own for the long term, and that in no way is what the ASR types advocate for.
Subjectivity is involved in everything we make a judgment on -- audio is the only place where "scientists" insist we cannot place any value in what we hear. Cable preferences probably
very often are affected by subjectivity -- there is no question about that because cable difference are extremely subtle at the very least. That said, extrapolating a few well-known blind tests of gold-infused-platinum diamond-encrusted cables against zip cord examples into "cables can never make a difference" is the opposite of science. DACs are subtle too. The cheapest DACs sounds pretty great in my experience -- that doesn't mean nothing can sound better. The fact that subjectivity can play a role is obvious and undebatable, but it is a extreme unscientific extrapolation to say everything is subjective and that the physical doesn't matter.
Wouldn't you like to know that the products you consider are well-engineered? Well designed? That they meet some objective performance criteria, that they do what the maufacturer says they do? Further, are you a hobbyist who has fallen prey to the magic cable industry?
What is it about listening makes you think it precludes looking at everything else???? In my opinion, anyone serious about audio should look at data AND listen to evaluate any equipment they buy. Failure to do either is ridiculous, but if I had to choose one over the other -- I'd choose listening a thousand times over data. In science, analytical models are
never ever perfect for predicting anything related to human senses -- real science always combines imperfect analytical and imperfect physical test results, with proper weighting of each, to determine what's best. The school of thought that analytical always trumps physical is a "logical sounding" invention by non-scientists that doesn't exist in real science.
Modeling is awesome! It is also
hugely flawed. Computer modeling for designing a car suspension, for example, is a thousand times better than what any human can do because computer models can sample every road condition, every tire and wheel combination, every load condition, over a gazillion miles, and it can model spring rates and damping rates and the impact of everything. Everything can be computed by exact models whose behavior is precisely dictated by physics that have been written in stone for hundreds of years. No human engineer can evaluate anything at that computational level. That said, when they are done with all of their "perfect" analytical modeling and measurement, humans do the final evaluation and humans do the final tweaking of those parameters, which will vary a lot from the computational result. The reason they need to do that is because, despite physics equations being undisputably true, it's humans who drive cars and analytical modeling and measurement does not provide a perfect picture of what humans feel when they drive the car in real-life environments. Humans are also the ones who use their audio systems to listen to music, in wildly varied real-life environments -- the thought they should
NOT listen to those systems for evaluation, but instead rely solely on the results of analytical models and measurements in lab conditions -- is the polar opposite of science.