Hmmm... this thread has wandered quite a way off from my original question, which was simply a request for cites to any serious attempts to reconcile the two sides. I don't mind where it's gone, but it is a long way...
Some observations from a subjectivist (with the cables to prove it):
I dislike marc mc's views, because they're based on negativism. The fundamental concept that "I'm not a technical person, so I refuse to be in any way involved with the entire technical side, and make all decisions by listening" is based on a very prevalent form of self-limitation. We're all here typing on computers, transmitting over the internet. We should all be technical people, at least enough to understand the basics of what we're about. I believe it was Marilyn Vos Savant who, when asked what she thought was the biggest problem with American education, said: "We teach our children that a knowledge of sex is necessary, but not nice, while a knowledge of science is nice, but not necessary". I think the subjectivist-only view is a product of this problem.
Marc's viewpoint consigns the whole subjectivist community to being incapable of understanding any of the science of audio. I think everyone should understand as much science as they're able, and embrace it as fully as they can. Rejecting science as unimportant is not something I would like to see my children do... and it would sadden me greatly to hear them say such.
It's also completely antithetical. The entire audio realm is a creation of science. There's no such thing as audio reproduction without a ton of science, and there's no valid argument that more science in audio is worse than less science. The more we understand, the better our systems will be.
Second point, I find it noteworthy that one of the foremost technical wizards on this site (yes, Ray, I mean you) has gone out of his way to try to bridge the gap, while the "ears only" side is pushing hard to prove that the gap can't be bridged, and shouldn't be. It seems a symptom of the self-limitation syndrome for the subjectivists to wall themselves in by relegating science to designers and manufacturers, limiting themselves to their ears. I like the idea that the real scientists (as opposed to the high-school level know-it-alls) try hard to understand what the other side is hearing.
Last point, what gets manufactured is dependent on what sells. If buyers don't like the way it sounds, it won't sell. At the same time, manufacturing is entirely dependent on science and engineering to provide quality control and consistency from unit to unit. Anyone in the industry will tell you that you absolutely have to marry the two sides to succeed long-term in the audio business. If you can't measure to see how it sounds, you can't figure out how to build it to sound that way consistently. The fact is that manufacturers are bridging the gap every day... because they have no choice.