.....Clarence, Bless Your Heart, I know that hurts....but, you've got to keep in mind supporting her at this time, and beginning the road to recovery yourself....you should get out and mingle and mix....time spent with another woman can be medicine indeed....if you had gone ahead and got married, what would you feel after being married a couple of years and her approach you with this?....I'd tell her to do whatever she feels she needs to do, with an honest smile on my face....then I'd call for a date that night with someone else....are there any Bridge clubs in your area?....square-dancing or conventional dancing at a Rec Center closeby?....a Church with a singles program?....you need a little time, but you can quicken the recovery....Clarence, if a woman told me she might want someone else, I'd think, Well, I might want someone else as well....weren't you lookin' for a woman when you found this one?....there's Zillions of 'em here on this Earth, Clarence, but they're ALL nuts.....
ara:
. But treated me like arse. Now I with a great girl but we can't seem to get over the broken roads that led each other to one another. but we are learning from each other and are still fighting the battle. You'll miss people who come and go in your life because you care about them. I knew a guy who devoutly loved his wife and when he found out she was leaving him for another man he ended up dying at work of a heart attack at 42 -- broken heart? Sandy G. is right when he says you'll never figure women out -- you won't. They're wired different and they're just as diverse as we are. you're not less manly for missing someone -- unless that stops you from trying again. The things your are feeling about drinking and being single only means you are maturing and figuring out what is important in your life. 
