Given that most tables aren't (and never were) bought from, and set up by, dealers, it seems a little hard on the dealers to blame them. Clearly most of the public thought 'good enough' was just fine - otherwise they would have bought turntables from dealers and demanded proper set up, the cost be hanged. But most buyers will drive two hours to save two bucks, and mail order was big even in the 60s and 70s.
I also think that you are overstating how consistent the correct antiskating force is - you can set it perfectly for one section of music, and it's wrong for others, so all that oscilloscope work is specific to that cut, on that record.