So, we are mostly in agreement. We all want better dynamics and less sibilance. But we can't use the same methods on all tonearms.
Agree, not all methods will work as well on any kind of tonearm.
Now, for a funny
follow up to my experience with the SME 3009/II...
I installed the OC9XEB cartridge there, with the same LH11H headshell. 2.0g VTF.
I noticed that there was a slight sibilance on some challenging tracks of a record (Ruben Blades - Buscando America). Some slight sound of effort on the highest modulated parts of the vocals. This was using A/B comparison with the same track(s) sourced from Tidal.
I tried using the foam isolator on the headshell -- no improvement. Removed the isolator, went for solid coupling -- no improvement.
I then went back again to the ADC XLM II Improved cartridge, brand new stylus, 1.25g VTF. Sibilance absolutely gone, very natural, good sound. So I theorized that the MC was transmitting way too much energy to the tonearm.
I switched turntables, and installed the OC9XEB on the SME 3009/III (Series III tonearm). Clear tracking, clear as a bell, problem gone.
The fun stuff here is how arm mass and/or perceived compliance seems to mean nothing.
I had the SME 3009 II (circa 16-18g, when you consider the 11g headshell) work perfectly fine with the very-high-compliance ADC, poor with the MC OC9XEB, which -if compliance figures are to be believed- is a high compliance cartridge too, just not so high as the ADC.
Yet the SME 3009 III (5g effective arm mass including fixed headshell) was a very good match to the OC9XEB...
It all shows that it is more about how the cartridge actually behaves, than a compliance figure versus an arm mass figure.
So going back to what
@tothmes wrote, tonearms are not equal. The SME III has no flexible coupling at all, it's all rigid from headshell down to the counterweight, as far as I can see.